What am I doing, why am I doing it, is it working, where am I going etc
Just when I was beginning to question why I am still 4sighting/persevering with the Getinvolved project a woman came up to me recently at the end of 4N meeting and said, “Thank you. What you said has given me inspiration to carry on & the knowledge that it’s not just me that struggles.” Thought I’d share the lessons learned so far as feedback like that is a massive part of my “why”.
Creating quiet still space for a germ of an idea to form. We are so inundated with input (social media/phone/email etc) and the pressure to be instantly available can be overwhelming. How can you know what’s going on inside if you don’t make time to listen? You could easily overlook what might be a brilliant idea.
Once the idea progresses to the point where you are going to (& probably feel compelled to) act, pause to reflect on why it is important to you. Whilst £ is great, it’s pursuit alone is unlikely to keep you going when it gets really tough. I’ve talked about this before in some earlier articles. As Nietzsche put it, “If man has a big enough why he can cope with almost any how.” Make sure your why is MASSIVE!
When setting a target aim for the stars. Setting an ambitious goal forces us to think creatively. It’s all too tempting to set a soft target and give ourselves a pat on the back for a job well done. Set a big target & be prepared to “fail” publicly. Put your ego to one side & get on with it. Failure is the other side of the coin from innovation. Think about it. You will be forced to think differently and even if you fall short of the big target you will almost certainly beat the soft/easy option. Going public helps you hold yourself accountable!
Collaborate. You don’t have to prove you can do it all on your own. Not only is it easier if there are a few of you involved…it’s a lot more fun too. Find people who share your values/your “why” and engage. Everyone involved must have an equal amount to gain/lose from the project’s success/failure.
I’ve read/spoken loads about “letting go” over the years & thought I understood the concept well. The last few months have been an exercise in shifting from “me” to “we”/ “mine” to “ours”. If I’m honest I’m still struggling a bit and there are others involved who are patient teachers. Thank you.
Persevere. Life/business & marathons can be gruelling at times. Stick with it one step at a time. It may not turn out as you expected and the route may be full of twists & turns. If you put all of the above into practice you will get “there”…even if it’s a different “there” from the one you set off for!
Thank YOU lady for saying what you said as it has re focused me on my “why” and answered the “so what”.